There are things you chose, once, with conviction. A direction. A belief. A version of yourself you committed to fully.
And now something has shifted. Not dramatically. Not suddenly. But enough that the old certainty doesn't fit the way it used to.
That can feel like failure. Like inconsistency. Like you should have known better.
It isn't any of those things.
Changing your mind doesn't mean you were wrong before. It means you're paying attention now. It means you're honest enough to notice when something no longer matches who you're becoming.
Holding onto a decision just because you made it isn't loyalty. It's rigidity disguised as integrity.
You're allowed to outgrow things. Even things you chose. Even things you loved.
One thing:
Notice one belief or commitment you've been holding onto out of obligation rather than alignment, and give yourself permission to reconsider it.
— Josh